Benefits to breastfeeding: Cost (formula is about 1200$ a year for the cheap stuff), convenience, bonding hormones responsible for milk production and letdown, health to baby (fewer illnesses-- especially ear infections and diarrhea, jaw formation, less likely to develop allergies or asthma etc.) health to mother (protects against osteoporosis, decreases risk of cancers such as breast and uterine, etc). Breastmilk has exactly what baby needs and can't be duplicated by formula-- scientists haven't even been able to identify everything in breast milk. Breastmilk is easy to digest and baby is less likely to be colicky, gas-y etc.
Getting Started: Breastfeeding is more likely to get off to a good start if the birth has the least possible interventions, drugs etc. A newborns sucking reflex is the strongest in the first 2 hours, and particularly the first hour after birth. Routine Newborn procedures can wait until mom has had time to bond with the baby and try breastfeeding for the first time. Offer the baby the breast as soon as they seem interested, but don't stress out if they aren't interested. They still have fluid in their stomach to sustain them and they might be tired after their long trip. After being alert for a couple of hours, the baby might sleep for a nine hour stretch. This is an important time for a new mom to try and sleep to. Spend the first couple of weeks resting, snuggling, breastfeeding and getting to know the baby.
Latch (how the baby comes onto the breast) is important!! Show pictures, and use breast models. Remember, babies ears, shoulders, and hips need to be lined up (hard to swallow and suck if your head is turned.) Support babies head, support breast, point baby's nose to nipple, tickle babies lips, wait for his mouth to gape open and then pull him on with the nipple pointing to the roof of babies mouth. plenty of areola needs to be taken in for baby to get adequate milk and to avoid discomfort. Nurse on one side until baby doesn't have strong jaw movement or stops eating. Try burping the baby (they may not need to burp) and then you can offer the other side.
Have baby sleep close by in order for both of you to get the most sleep possible. After you both get the hang of breastfeeding you will be able to manage without turning on lights and will get much more sleep.
A new mom might be really leaky for a couple of weeks or so. Keeping a cloth diaper or towel close by and leaving "flaps" down to air out frequently can help to avoid chapping. If you use nursing pads, change them often to avoid a yeast infection and chapping. Having a towel under you while you sleep can be good too.
Milk supply:
Supply and demand. Your body will produce what baby eats so it is important not to force them to stretch out feedings. A newborn will need to eat every hour or 2 around the clock for about 4 weeks and then will start to sleep more at night and may stretch feedings out to 2 to 3 hours. Watch for rooting reflex (turning head and sucking), sucking on fists or tongue and whimpering. The American Academy of Pediatrics says crying is a LATE indicator of hunger. Babies will eat more frequently before a growth spurt so your body will produce more milk to accommodate the growth (2, 4, 6, 8 weeks for example.) If you give the baby a bottle while you are away or for whatever reason, you need to pump to make up for that feeding so your body will still produce what baby is eating.
Trouble Shooting: Nipple soreness-more than just some tenderness when baby latches- may mean baby isn't positioned correctly, use pinky finger to break suction and try again. Nipples may be chapped and a tender for 1 or 2 weeks since they haven't been used in that capacity before. Leaving the nipples exposed will help the very most. You can also get a prescription for Newman's ointment form your Dr. If they are cracked, bleeding, or mishappen after nursing it may be a latch problem. If they hurt all the time it may be a yeast infection or something else.
Engorgement, full and swollen breasts, may occur when milk comes, usually with the first week. Breastfeed as often as baby will let you to be more comfortable. Use a warm cloth or water before breastfeeding to help the milk come down and cold after to help with the swollen breast tissue. If you pump for relief only pump a tiny bit to fill a little relief or your body will just keep making the milk.
If you get a hot spot or lump, massage the area while breastfeeding to help the milk pass through the duct and drink plenty of extra fluids to avoid a breast infection. A leaf of cabbage place over your breast can offer some relief. Cabbage has properties that will inhibit milk production.
Eat a high protein diet with lots of fresh produce and plenty of fluids to help with milk production and adequate nutrition for yourself and baby. You need about 300 extra calories to produce enough milk. Your breast milk changes in taste and color depending on what you eat. Eat a variety of foods to avoid a picky eater.
Modesty- nursing clothes are available but not really necessary. Nursing blankets are easy to make or available to buy but with a little practice you can usually get the baby latch on without showing anything (baby is covering everything) or under a blanket. Nursing garments and nursing bras are of course very beneficial. Mothers lounge available at church if you don't feel comfortable nursing in sacrament meeting, or until you get used to being discreet.
More information on breastfeeding:
The Nursing Mothers Companion by Kathleen Huggins
The Womanly art of Breastfeeding by Diane Wiessinger
The Ultimate Breastfeeding Book of Answers by Jack Newman
all available at Provo Library
Websites:
La Leche League www.llli.org
Video to show how to latch: http://www.youtube.com/watch? v=0oQHe1eYsnE